You're a guest, not the bride.

Don’t overthink it. You’re a guest at a wedding, not a model at a fashion show. Nobody will remember your swimsuit unless it’s neon green with tassels. Pick something you already own that fits well and makes you feel comfortable.

The key is versatility. Most destination weddings have pool or beach time, but also brunch, excursions, and the actual ceremony. A solid-color bikini or one-piece in navy, black, or a muted print works under a cover-up for lunch and then goes straight into the ocean. Avoid anything with rhinestones, huge logos, or super-trendy cuts you’ll never wear again.

If you’re worried about being in wedding photos, stay away from white (obvious) and anything that clashes with the wedding colors. Ask the couple if they have a color palette if you’re really anxious, but odds are they don’t care. You’ll look better relaxed and having fun than stressed about whether your suit matches the coral reef theme.

Honestly, the people who look best are the ones who aren’t fussing with their outfit.